Just > Fair

I recently found myself in a prolonged state of argument with a loved one. It has been difficult and painful.

I've come to realize that my loved one and I have completely different opinions on what a fair outcome would look like. It would appear we are at an impasse.

However, grace and forgiveness can lead past fairness toward just outcome. Such a just outcome may seen unfair to both parties, but in the end it brings peace to all involved.

Where are you prioritizing a sense of what's fair over an opportunity to use grace to create what is just?